Monday, June 30, 2014

Hand Written Letter (Dated: 6/30/2014) [#41 from Tonga]

Today we received a great letter from Blake.  However, there are parts in this letter that we decided to keep more  private and just posted some of the highlights.

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Family:)!

I have thought about what I am going to write about in this letter and how I can follow the spirit in what I think you all need to hear.  Also, I want to remember these thoughts someday so writing them down is important. I don't know if you have noticed or not, but I try to write in a way that shows what I have learned and where I'm "at" on my mission.  It's kinda like I'm writing in my journal, but on a different kind of level!:) Today, I really want to talk about TAU ATAINA KE FILI or Agency but mix it with TALANGOFUA or Obedience.

Lately I have been thinking about why I have been having such a rough time and why I have struggled so much this past year. What has caused this struggle? As I  have been thinking, a quote repeatedly comes to my mind. "I never said it would be easy. I only said it would be worth it."

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God will not place a trial in front of us that we can not overcome! 1 Cor 10:13  As I have thought about this, I have asked myself if I really know that I was called of God.  Without a shadow of doubt, I know that no one else could have called me here! God knew that as a missionary, I would be able to handle the challenges of Tonga.  He knew that I would have the ability to choose an obedient path that would come at the expense of tears, head and heartaches, and much struggle.  But I know that this path that I am on is the only one that God would want me on. But what humbles me most is that I know that before I went through these challenges, the Savior already walked these trials through His atonement.

I am not here for myself, but rather, I am here for my Heavenly Father and for what He wants me to do. Lately, I have felt that my calling here was to be a leader to my companions and others by way of example. I realize that my opportunities as a football captain for many years was my opportunity to learn how to lead and that this was preparation for what I am called to do here in Tonga. I will be eternally grateful for the opportunities God has given me through my life to prepare for where I am right now!

I have learned so much on my mission. I am so blessed to be in Tonga. What a privilege it is to server here and to have an impact on those around me!

I am privileged to have my Heavenly Father's people and my Heavenly Father's trust in my hands! I feel that it is my duty to show a path of obedience and to shine a bright light on the path of Christ! For I have been called to His work!

Love you all!
Your Son/Brother
But always remember we are an Eternal Family ;)

Sunday, June 29, 2014

E-mail (Dated: 6/29/2014)

Hey everyone!!!!! My thoughts are very scattered today.  We have walked over  over 6 miles today...just trying to find keys to a church so that I could send an e-mail.  The church where we normally go, the internet is not working... o yup hahaha.

This week we were able to have  the beautiful baptism of Vaka and Siupeli!!!! It was incredible! I could never describe in words the beautiful spirit that was there. I think what made the spirit even stronger was that we have grown so close to these young men.  I feel like I knew them up in heaven.  They are like little brothers to my companion and I. They were so happy and so excited to enter into the waters of baptism!!!! You should have seen how excited they were walking into church with their new Sunday clothes on Sunday and how excited they were to receive the Gift of the Holy Ghost!!!!! I think what touched me the most were the testimonies they bore with such confidence!!!!!

We were invited to a birthday party for the gangster I was talking to you about a few letters ago.  You can see their picture below.  They have had some pretty crazy pasts. I was able to talk to them all personally about there perspective on religion and their belief in God.  It was crazy to see how they all grew up in the church and yet somehow down the road they started to lose belief, but not because they had doubts, but because sin became more comfortable as they told themselves the things they had believed were not true....

What a testimony builder to me about building my foundation upon a rock. One of them asked what I have learned so far on my mission and If I had gained anything out here.  It kinda took me back.  I look him straight in the eye and bore testimony to him that because of the gospel principles upon which I have built my life, and the devotion that I have given this gospel, my roots and my heart are so far deep in the gospel that nothing could pull me away. I have developed faith that I couldn't have anywhere else.  I have been tested to points that pulled me so deep, that I know with all my heart that this is the true and everlasting gospel.
That morning I was reading out of a book my neighbor let me borrow, it's called "Extremes".  It is a Deseret Book book. It was talking about how we need to build our testimonies now, so that we can be built upon a rock, so that our kids will see nothing but dedication in our hearts, because that is the only way you can raise a family on the rock of our redeemer. It has brought a whole new meaning to the song. "The Wise Man Build His House Upon a Rock."

Lastly I would like to close by thanking my family for helping me be build upon the Rock of my Redeemer!

I love you all so very much!
-Elder Harmon
Vaka and Siupeli Baptism - Very Spiritual Experience




Blake with Companion and Stake President


Blake with Some Friends from a Local Gang

My First Pig Kill

Monday, June 23, 2014

Hand Written Letter (Dated: 6/23/2014) [#40 from Tonga]

Family :)!!
Today I appreciated so much the advice, encouragement, and love that was sent my way. I also appreciate that fact that you let me vent a little. But, I would really not like to focus on my troubles.  I would like to focus on all the amazing things that I heard on email today! Michael, I am so proud of you and your accomplishments and your amazing work ethic that has gotten you accepted into the Architecture Program at the U. I know we all rejoice in your success. You make such an incredible addition to our family!
Mom and Brooke, your girls camp sounded like too much fun I can’t believe you got snow in the middle of June  I really miss the snow event though I think I would die from the cold now because my body is acclimated to Tongan temperature. It’s so fun to hear about Brook in the young women’s program and especially how mom has gotten to be right beside her. I was very fortunate to have mom as my Primary President and afterwards, to have dad as my deacon’s quorum advisor. I know this was a huge part of why we are so close today!

It’s pretty amazing to see God’s timing with everything. I think patience one of the biggest things that I have learned on my mission. Patience, because everything, whether I am waiting for an investigator to accept baptism or just waiting for a letter in the mail. I know it’s his timing :)

As I received your letters, I receive them about a month after they were written. My most recent letter is from Dad, the date is 5/29/14 and today’s date is 6/25/14. Can I just say, “thank you Dad!” I got this letter at the perfect time. Whenever I receive a letter from either one of you, I receive so much strength. I know that a month seems like a long time to wait for a letter, but it’s amazing how something from a month ago, can be more needed a month later. God’s timing is everything. I have a quick story I would like to share with you that my mission president shared with me.

There was a couple that wanted to serve mission together. So, they turned in their papers and on their papers, they stated clearly that they DID NOT want to learn a language, and they DID NOT want to go to a location where the weather is cold. They soon received their mission call and it was a call to Russia. So, it was not only cold, but also a difficult language. The couple declined the call and turned in new papers with the same instructions about no foreign language and no cold locations. Sometime later, they received a new call.  The mission call was again to Russia. The couple became so flustered and upset that they called the First Presidency. The First Presidency told them that Russia is the place where the Lord must want them to serve. So, they accepted the call. Their first area was working at a prison in one of the main Russian cities. It was the first week there and the wife was in total shock. She was overwhelmed with the language and with the culture and was feeling really sorry for herself. So, she went out in the hall of the prison and just cried and cried. Soon, she heard someone say, “Ma’am, can I help you?” At first she didn't realize that someone was speaking to her in English. The second time, the janitor asked, “Ma’am, are you okay?” She looked up only to find that it was her son who 10 years earlier had disappeared and nobody knew where he had gone.
This story was from Pres Tupou’s neighbor. It really touched my heart and reminded me how God’s hand is in all things and how His timing is perfect.

So, we first need to have patience. Second, we need to heed the promptings of the spirit. Then we must act on those promptings in faith. I know sometimes it’s hard to accept that patience is the only way, whether we are trying to be patient with ourselves, or patient in waiting for answers to prayers. “Some blessings come soon, some come late and some don’t come until heaven, but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, they come!” –Jeffrey R. Holland  I love this quote, but I have often thought, what does it mean to “embrace the gospel?”

The gospel of Jesus Christ is:
Faith (in Jesus Christ)
Repentance
Baptism
Gift of the Holy Ghost
Enduring to the End

As we teach this lesson to our investigators, my faith and my embracing of this gospel gets stronger and stronger! I think the biggest part of this lesson for people to understand is “Enduring to the End”. All of us in this gospel have had or have faith in Jesus Christ, and have repented and have been baptized and received the gift of the Holy Ghost. But, all of this truly means nothing if we stop there and stop striving to receive God’s greatest gift of Eternal Life. We must “Endure”, but not just endure but “Endure Well”! As we learn to endure all things, and endure them well, a light and a joy will come into our lives that cannot be explained, but simply felt!

I love you all and appreciate so much the support and the love that you all offer in my behalf, and also in Brooklin’s behalf. You all are amazing. No other work could describe my family

Your Son/Brother,
But always remember we are an Eternal Family
Elder Blake Daniel Harmon

Sunday, June 22, 2014

E-mail (Dated: 6/22/2104)

Well so today, I didn't even notice how fast my time was disappearing as i responded to everyone's emails, so I will try and make it short and sweet :)

So as of a result of working hard with our members, we have been able to get on the same page with a couple families and with their help and their trust, we have been able to teach to amazing kids, Vaka and Siupeli. These are referrals that we received last week, we are still working on the other two, but these two have been a joy to teach!!!!! Vaka is 12 and Siupeli is 15, but I thought he was 17 at least haha -- pretty big for his age, kinda like Brandon hahaha:).  They will be baptized this Wednesday.  We rejoiced in happiness when we went to talk to their parents about baptizing them. Their dad is a minister at another church, but all of his cousins are Mormon, so they have such a good support system!!!!! We are so excited for them!!!!! They both have been coming to church every once in a while  for the past 2 months, but just this last week, we finally got the okay to teach them, prayer is such a powerful tool, and so very powerful as a companionship!!!!

We have been working with a less active family named Aki and Selu, and we have been trying to get them to come to church probably for the last 3 months.  This last Sunday Aki came to church with us... Haha I walked up to his door with my white shirt and tie in hand and handed it to him and invited him to church, and he happily agreed.  The next morning when we picked him up, I have never seen a happier face. It was a beautiful experience to have him be with us at sacrament meeting as we got to explain more in depth the importance of sacrament and why we need to do it every week. It was very tender!

Emeline is in Vava'u and comes back this week, so we will continue to teach her.

Eni and Eva have been really busy, and Afeliti is in New Zealand, so we are excited to see what the future holds.

This last week I have thought a lot about why I am still here in Sopu, and I have realized that if I am still here, there is still something I haven't learned yet, or someone here that still needs me.  I'm excited to take on the opportunities and see what it is!!

Monday, June 16, 2014

Hand Written Letter (Dated: 6/16/14) [#39 from Tonga]

Family :)

I look at this blank page and hope that when I'm done writing, and the page is full, I have shared something that can help you and make us a stronger family. As I have pondered on what to write about today, it has been a little difficult.  Not a lot has come to my mind, so I then pondered on some things I have studied and some advice that I have heard over the years!  It then came to me!  I have been meaning to write about it for a while, just wanted to wait for the right time to share it.  The topic I want to talk about is "Reading the Book of Mormon Daily".  Mom, I  know that you have been amazing and Dad, I know that you are too, so Brandon and Brooke, this topic is for the two of you!

Before I came out on my mission, I had read the Book of Mormon a total of "zero" times by myself.  Sure, I knew the stories and sure, I told myself that I had a testimony, but did I really? As I sat on Noapapu, I pondered on how I could really tell someone to read the Book of Mormon if I had never done so myself! So, I started to read, EVERY DAY! The other times I have read the Book of Mormon with the family or just passages here and there, I felt like it was a different language or some level of English that I did not understand.  However, as I read it for my first time on Noapapu, it all started to make sense. Why? Because of the time I gave it and because of where the desires of my heart were. I know life is crazy.  Sports, dancing, friends, dating, girls, and so many other things contribute to that. As I was on Noapapu, I gained a perspective that I could not have gained anywhere else. The perspective of importance and priority. I realized what life is truly about and I realized how much time I wasted when really I could have been coming closer to our Savior...my Savior.

As I look back I had so many times during multiple days where I wondered what I should spend my time on. I spent so much time watching TV where instead, I could have read 7 chapters or so in the Book of Mormon. I promise you as you read, light will come into your life and the spirit will felt and making righteous choices will become easier!

I'm now on my 5th time reading the Book of Mormon (in English). My perspective and understanding has grown and continues to grow!  I know that as a missionary, I can never teach or talk about something without giving a commitment or challenge! So, I challenge you both to read it before October 31, 2014.

Brandon, I know you have started a journal and write in it every day. I'm so proud of you! :) I hope adding the Book of Mormon into your life every day will make your journal writing so much better. Everyday, write about your thoughts and what you learn and you will be blessed!

I laugh because journal writing and reading the Book of Mormon are the two tings people always told me to do when I was younger, but I always blew them off. Now it is my biggest regret. Brandon and Brooke, I want you to learn from me, not follow in my foot steps, because I have made a lot of mistakes in my life, but look now where I am shining the light and walk there, for you will be blessed!

I remember when people used to tell me I would be blessed for things, but I never really knew what that meant. Brandon, Brooke . . . miracles can happen. I can now read and understand as I read. I could never do that before. I now love to read!!! Me, Blake Harmon loves to READ!! Miracles can happen if and when you follow the light of Christ!

I love you all so very much! I know my thoughts are a little scattered, but it is 6:00AM so my mind isn't fully awake, haha :)

Oh, by the way, I challenge you to read the Book of Mormon from a book and not your iPhone or kindle. Temptations will be easier and your focus will be stronger.

Before I end this topic, I just want you all to know that I love you so so much! I want you to know I pray for you all every time I get the chance, which is a lot when you are a missionary! I love you! The love a missionary has for his family is indescribable, especially when there are about 8500 miles between us....but my love has grown because of the distance.

Just remembered something that had a big impact on me. It was my buddy Silas Olsen. I don't know if you remember him (#5 on the football team and a year older than me). He is currently serving in Spain. He told me one night at Brandon Eldredge's house to grab a Book of Mormon because, "We are not going to bed without reading it!" I will always look up to him for that.  So, it's not lame to carry around your Book of Mormon, you can actually have an Eternal impact on someone!

- Elder Harmon

But always remember we are an Eternal Family!

Sunday, June 15, 2014

E-mail (Dated: 6/15/2014)

Its been a pretty crazy week here in Tonga, with the time of year it is. Back at home I can picture the calm Utah lake, and the chill to the bone as you jump in, because its not quite hot enough yet to be warm in the water hahaha. And the Friday nights you have the kids running around with there friends and Brandon taking out a new girl every other Friday hahaha......

I thought I would open up your eyes to on whats happening in Tonga.... It is winter here, or what I would call is just another summer hahaha.... The kids just hit a mid term here, so they have this whole week off of school. So it kinda feels like I'm back in Utah...... :)

My Heart is warm today as I have had beautiful opportunities to read some incredible emails that have touched my heart deeply. Its a pretty miraculous blessing to have 3 of some of my best friends going through some incredible experiences.. I rejoice it there successes and their loyalty to our Savior!!! Brian, you are a solider if I have ever met one! I'm proud of you and you let me tell you, you do make a difference! I can picture my self in the MTC and can remember all the times that your going through, and without a doubt can picture the solid missionary that you are! You will change lives, the language sounds difficult, tons harder than Tongan, but hey look at the person that learning it, he can do anything, that's why they chose you!!!!!

Blake, I have been heart broken to hear about how bad your back is doing, but I pray for you constantly and know the Lord has you in his hands, and no matter what you will be blessed because of your hard work and dedication!!!!! I have loved to hear of your experiences and your trials, there is nothing that builds me up more than to hear the people I love just fight through their trials, because us as children of our Heavenly Father have so many especially being missionaries sharing his gospel!!! Look up to you a ton Blake.

Finally, but definitely not least, Brooklin. Wow you are an inspiration to me and you have made me so proud. You have such an incredible endurance, that it is addicting. I love hearing from you and being able to feel your strength in your Heavenly Father and your dedication to his work. At times I know that its going to be hard but you don't let that stop you, you look at the trails ahead and the mountain ahead and you run full steam ahead. You are incredible and I am so happy to be able to call you MY missionary!!!

Mom, and Dad:  Mom it's funny how you told me that you took awhile to get into the temple, because it took us awhile too!!!! I got in our session around 12:20 so I am pretty sure we were there around the same time!!!! Aw I am so blessed! I was able to feel all of your love and your arms wrapped around me. I hope you were all able to feel mine!!!!!

So we have been waiting to email for about 3hrs.  The door to the building was locked and we could not get a hold of anyone, but I am so blessed to get the chance now.  I just don't have a lot of time. I want to tell you a little of how everyone we are working with is doing!.

Eni and Eva- They have been really busy with a funeral so we haven't been able to return this last week, but we will continue to try...

Emeline- Her faith is incredible! Her grandmother just passed away, so we have not been able to teach her this week.

Aftetis family is in New Zealand.

Aneti's cousin passed away, so she couldn't meet with us this whole week.

Now you can probably see why my heart was so warm as I got onto email today to see that my friends are battling through trails, just like I am. Its probably the hardest thing for a missionary to have no one to teach in a week, but a few non interested people.

My companion and I, around Thursday, looked at each other and said yeah this is not fun. We decided that we need help, we can't do it on our own. So we asked for help from above and we then called a couple families to have us over for an early family home evening. We were able to go over to those families yesterday and express the importance of the family and the gospel in the family. In the preach my gospel video on disc one, I think chapter 13 it's taking about working with members. President Monson said that after you have expressed the importance of families, then challenge them to think of people that they know that has a family that is in need of spiritual help or that has a family with a son that is falling away,( just watch the video, its said a lot better than I could ever say it!!!!) Anyway, we got 5 referals that we are excited to contact!!!!!!!! Member missionary work is awesome. We are excited to continue this process in our companionship and I'm excited to see how I can improve to make bigger impacts with the families!!! I love you all so much!!!!







Monday, June 9, 2014

Hand Written Letter (Dated: 6/9/2014) [#38 from Tonga]

This week I have spent a lot of time thinking about ways that God prepares His children and the ways He prepares His missionaries to become teachers, learners, and eventually fathers. I have thought about the many warnings that He has put before us and how He advises us to heed to every one! Many prophets and apostles have taught that we must follow every commandment and not just pick and choose. We must follow the whole commandment and not just a portion of it! As I have been on my mission, I have noticed how worldly I was before I came out on my mission. I desired so much of the worldly things. Mom, as I was able to talk to you on the phone . . . I mean e-mail you :) you told me about Gabe Ried's family member from Samoa and how she told you they know the real meaning of life! But anyway, it was something I have been able to relate to now. As you live without all of the worldly things, your main concerns are feeding the family and raising your children. Your focus becomes more on the family.

I have written a few letters before about how I have a new understanding about the family and a newly found stronger testimony that I wouldn't trade for the Lamborghini Gallardo!!!!

I'm so grateful to have had the chance to live here in Tonga and to learn so much that I could not have learned any other way!

Back to the topic of of God preparing us all to be who he needs us to be. Many people, at least me, think that missionaries are perfect and that they don't get temped by the adversary. Boy was I ever wrong about that! At times, I feel satan working on me more than ever in my life and man can missionaries mess up!

For the past two weeks, now going on three, we have not had running water at all.  We have not been able to shower and we do not get any food in the mornings. Waking up to that, on top of the fact that our area is struggling with missionary success, creates an internal struggle to get up and start my day. The clock rings at 6:30am and I look at the clock and I don't know if I can go another day. Some days I have failed myself and the Savior by missing my wakeup time.  On these days, I have felt the spirit leave me.  I felt different. The only way to compare it is to say that I felt like "Blake Harmon" instead of "Elder Blake Harmon".  I have been called as God's servant and to run on His time. I have lived my whole life on my time and this is just two years to run on His time!

I have felt the spirit telling me to repent and to move forward, but you are my family whom I love and I feel like I have let you down. So, I wanted to write a letter and ask for forgiveness and tell you that I am sorry for my hiccups and struggles along the way. I know that because of your support and your love towards me, it gives me strength to be obedient and to strive to do my best!

All I want to do is be the very best I can. It is a lot of pressure and sometimes I feel like I am so weak and I can't hold all the weight. I just want to be an example that my little brother and sister can follow. I have had days and I have had weeks and sometimes a month that have given me pain and have thrown every stone and every rock at me to the point where I though I might quit....then I get on my e-mail and Mom or Dad tell me how big of an example I am and suddenly I have more strength and I am able to take more hits by the stones of my trials. I just want Brandon and Brooke to know that I am doing my best for you two because I love you! I love you so much and want what is best for you. I want you to know that you can make it and that this path of the gospel is the only way to true joy and that through obedience in Christ you can receive that joy! Mom, Dad, and Brittany have been those examples to me and have made it so easy for me to follow on the path because their footprints were so deep in the path of righteousness! I only hope to be that example that will help you continue on the path of joy!

I would like to bear my testimony of prayer and of the confirmation of the spirit. I know that through sincere prayer and a true desire to seek for an answer, you shall receive it! It is not on our time schedule and it is not always how we want it, it is how the Lord wants to give it to you! If we are listening, the spirit can tell us where we need to go.  I know this because I have prayed for help and listened for the spirit to guide me. With the spirit, I am a better person and a better missionary that I ever would be without it!

I have a whole new perspective about enduring our trials well! They may bring us down to our knees physically, but spiritually you should get on your knees and through prayer you shall become strong enough to stand.....but because we can now stand, does not mean that we should leave our knees, but rather, because we now have the strength to stand, we should continue to kneel.

May Heavenly Father protect & be with you until we are united again!

Your Son/Brother
Elder Harmon

But Never Shall We Forget.....We are an Eternal Family!

Sunday, June 8, 2014

E-mail (Dated: 6/8/2014)

Tender Mercies from up above,

This week has been full of incredible blessings and Tender Mercies that have made me recognize Heavenly Fathers love for me!!!! But not only for me but for his children. This week we received a referral for a girl named Anita. The referral came from the family whose house we live at. As the family told us about Anita, they told us that she was so so excited to meet with the missionaries. Her dad was a member but he is too weak to go to church so he stays home. But as we got there at her house, she just glowed with joy and was so so happy to be with us!!!! We found out that she has two beautiful little girls, they are 7 and 11.  They were so cute with us!!!! Man, it is so much easier to teach with a Tongan, he can relate to the families so well and can crack Tongan jokes hahaha. The spirit was very strong, as we talked about how their family can be together forever, they had the chance to walk through the temple before when the Tongan temple was being rededicated, and Anita said that she has always wanted to return. We were able to testify to her that it’s possible!!!! We are so excited to continue teaching her!!!!!

Second, we continued to teach Eni and Eva this week, but when we went there last, Eva was throwing up and couldn’t finish listening to the lesson, so we ended short and told them we would come back later. But I don’t know if you all knew or not, but Laurel Piccolo sent me Mormon Tabernacle CDs from the choir with all of the member’s autographs!!!! Wow true tender mercies!!!!!! Than you Laurel!!!!! SO when we left the house I remembered about the Cds, so we left and went and picked them up and some medicine and came back and gave it to Eni and Eva, Laurel they were so so grateful! As we taught them they told us one thing that brings there family together is music!!! So I know that it is going to make a difference!!! Thank you so much!!!

As we were going to one of our eating appointments this week, they forgot about it and she just gave us money instead, she gave us a 50 dollar bill!!!! That’s a ton in Tonga, but she wouldn’t take it back!!! So my companion has never had pizza before in his life so we both decided we would go to the Little Italy!!!! I told him I would pay the difference!!! As we were sitting there Swan’s friend walked in and was like elders where you from?  Immediately recognizing he was white and he was talking to us I knew he must be from Utah haha, he told me that he has a package for me and a backpack, but wow, it was a tender mercy for me and for Swan because I was able to call Swan quickly and let him talk to a friend from home!!!!

As I was getting my hair cut earlier this week I got a phone call from a lady and she told me that she was from Draper Utah and that she was neighbors with my Aunt Jenny!!!! Haha I freaked out hahaha she told me I had to come visit her at the church so we could get a picture!!!! So get this, she got to go to Vava'u and live on a little island for two days!!!! Guess what island!!! NOAPAPU- she showed me pictures of all the people I had grown to love and my little Island.  Wow, God looks out for us all!!!! It’s been a good week and full of the spirit!!! Oh and today I received so many letters from mom and dad!!! Thank you so much! It’s such a blessing to receive one from each of you in the week:) Love you all so much!!!!

P.S. -Family I will be in the temple this Saturday in the morning, so that means Friday there around 3 o’clock, just in case you want to be in the temple at the same time as me!!!!




Monday, June 2, 2014

Hand Written Letter (Dated: 6/2/2014) [#37 from Tonga]

Harmon Family :)

This week was full of incredible experiences and tender moments with the spirit.  At the beginning of our week, we were able to hold a fireside for non-members/investigators and less active members to join!  We also called President Topou to come and speak at the event . . .Wow, what a beautiful fireside!  The speakers were Salte Kauainuatuu (our recent convert).  She did amazing,. It's been so nice to stay close to one of me and Arcos's recent converts!  We also had another recent convert speak. She talked about how she is preparing to enter the temple with her husband and be sealed for eternity! Our 3rd speaker was Emeline Fusituu!  She is our current investigator. It was incredible to hear her testimony and then right afterwards the "recent covert" bore testimony to her about how making these steps into baptism will change her life forever! Well, after our fireside, President Tupou was driving us home and on the way he said, "you guys know that she is ready to baptized but you "two" need to follow the spirit and find out how to help her know she is ready. This touched me really deeply as I pondered on it. I finally came to the conclusion that I needed to put myself in her shoes, then in her father's shoes, but most importantly see it from my Savior's shoes, "Our Savior's Shoes"!

Her Perspective: From her shoes, I can't imagine how much pressure is coming her way from the multiple influences in her life.  She is living ins a house with all members and about every other day, she has the missionaries come over.  But not just that, she wants to join but her father won't support her. Wow, this makes me break down into tears . . . I cannot imagine not having my father support me in everything I do that is good!

Her Dad's Perspective: Her Dad's perspective is different. He loves his daughter adn wants what is best for her and doesn't want her to stray from the path of the church where she grew up.

Savior's Perspective: In my mind I see an image of our Savior pulling for Emeline and I can only imagine how hurt he is to know how difficult this road is on her.  But I now he is also smiling because she has been growing closesr to him!

As I have tried this week to see the situation from all three perspectives, I know that I can never truly understand the situation and the feelings involved, but our Savior can!

Yesterday, we were at Emeline's house, (actually her uncle's house....remember that her Dad lives in Ha'apai). Her uncle is actually our ward mission leader as well.  So, we were talking to him about a few things but the family was having a game night.  I was sitting at the table next to Emeline and I felt the spirit prompt me to talk to her and to help her.  I wasnt' really sure about how to go about it so I cacually turned to her and said, "Emeline, what can my companion and I help you with?  All we want to do is help! You are not on this journey alone! I will never forget the words that came out of her mouth.  She said, "Honestly , . .allI want is for me, my sister, and my Dad to be able to be sealed together forever and I want my Dad to join this church with me!"

Wow, the spirit was there adn I could fill her commitment to her Heavenly father.  But what words came next, I wasn't expecting.  She said, "Can you help me have that?" I can't really convey to you exactly what I was able to convey to her in that moment, but I know that the Lord prepares his people and he prepares his missionaries!  I was able to bear my testimony to her about how much her Savior loves her, and then able to tell her that I know her Dad loves her. We talked about her commitment to our Savior and about his commitment to us.

Family, if we would but listen to the spirit, there is so much being said and so much for us to follow. I think . . .let me rephrase. . . I knowthat a huge part of why I am her in Tonga is to learn "prefectly" the importance of the family and especially "eternal families".  I want to bear my testimony that I know the family is of God and because it is of God, there are blessings, miracles and power that nothing else can bring/match! I know that we are a family of God.

Harmon Family
An Eternal Family
We are of God
and We Represent Him

I love you all so much.  I hope my letters put a little warmth in all of  your hearts and let you all know I love you and let you know that I love my Savior!

Never forget the quote that mom has on the shelf in the house.  It is called Missionary Noun.  It reads, "A person who leaves their family for a while so that others can be with their families forever!"

Your Son/Brother
-Elder Blake Daniel Harmon

BUT NEVER FORGET, WE ARE AND ETERNAL FAMILY



Sunday, June 1, 2014

E-mail (Dated: 6/1/2014)

Hey My Beautiful Family and Beautiful Friends!!! 


Wow this week has been full of incredible experiences and full of the spirit!!! At the beginning of our week we were able to hold a fireside that we had come up with. It was for non members and investigators and also for our less active members to come to!!! We decided to call and to invite our mission president to come and join and to be our final speaker!!! It was incredible!!! We had two recent converts of our own come to it and speak and then we had our recent convert speak!!!! Wow what an incredible spirit that was felt!!!!! I mentioned the whole experience in a recent letter that will be coming. Just know it was amazing!!!!! The Holy Ghost really does touch the lives of those who seek it!!! 

After the fireside we went to one of our new investigators home!!!! So get this, Elder Felemi that is serving here, he came with me from the MTC, but his uncle is in my area!!!!!! He is less active so for the past few weeks we have been going there and helping him, but he finally asked if we would be willing to teach his wife!!!! We had no clue that she was not a member,  We just thought they were both less active!!!!! She is from Fiji, so her English is really good and her Tongan is terrible!!!! So, we got to teach our first lesson together in English!!!! 
We went into this lesson prepared as we ever could be!!! Hahaha, we roleplayed and roleplayed hahah in English, it was so weird to be using words like the Holy Ghost instead of laumalie Ma'oni oni hahaha.... but The lesson went beautifully.  She just was filled with tears of joy the whole time!!! It was incredible, we got to help her understand so much!!!! At the beginning of the lesson we asked her if she knew what the Holy Ghost was and she had no clue, but she said that she knew her church believed about it, but didn't talk about it!!!!! It was one of my favorite lessons I have ever taught. Teaching about the light of Christ and the Holy Ghost was a lesson I will never forget! We are continuing to teach her!!!!! She is right now reading the BOM.

We also had a chance this week to speak with a less active member family.  It all started with waving as we walked by, then the next day we thought we would go over and invite them to church! As we went up they immediately were so loving and friendly. They offered to feed us after church.  They were not able to make it to church, but they shared with us there feelings of there hearts and the problems of why they haven't been coming. It was incredible to hear their testimonies!! This Sunday they told us they really want to come to church if we will sit by them!!! Awwww best feeling in the world!!!! This week has been filled with happiness!! I love and miss you all!!!!! 

-Elder Harmon!!!